I usually gloss over claims that there is some kind of "war" being waged among relaxed and natural-haired women. I don't believe it exists and I believe any acknowledgement of it just adds fuel to the fire. But recently there was an opinion written for Ebony Magazine regarding this very subject and since Ebony is the premier magazine for Black interest I made it a point to read the article and respond. Nappturality has been at the forefront of the emerging acceptance of natural hair since 2002. Back then, things were so new - there were not many websites with information on how to care for our hair and there were certainly no  YouTube videos or online groups to go to for help.