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07-17-2012, 05:31 PM #31OG PANK Panther
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The majority of the men I dated since going natural have been Caucasian and my husband is Caucasian.
He really doesn't care much about my hair. He'd rather focus his attention on golf and beer and computers.
Seriously though, we've discussed this and he said that he's never been around any white men who seriously think more than two seconds about black women's hair. An ex-boyfriend of mine said that as well. If he wanted a straight-haired woman, he could have gotten a white woman (or Asian, Hispanic, etc.)
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07-17-2012, 07:55 PM #32
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I've dated and had relationships with a couple of white dudes while permed, TWA, faded, various stages of loced etc. It has never been a problem. I'm sure by now your man has seen a locked woman before. If he hasn't said anything negative at this point it's a pretty good indication that it's not an issue for him. As usual we tend to overthink what white folks think about our hair.
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08-05-2012, 12:47 AM #33OG PANK Panther
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My bf is white and we met when I still had a twa. He's dated plenty of black women, but I think I'm the first natural. He's seen my twa, twists, twist extensions and also experienced the extension take down He likes my hair no matter what.
Now, when I told him I was going to loc he was a bit apprehensive. He believed locs weren't washed, yadda yadda yadda. Didn't really care what he thought and I loced anyway. I think I've changed his impression of locs, although he still thinks most of the locs in pro sports are fake.
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