My name is Malinda and I'm currently living Dallas. It's been almost 8 weeks since my last relaxer and it has been VERY difficult for me. I don't know what to do with it. I've been reading the FAQs and it's telling me I can't comb my hair. Don't use shampoo, do use shampoo, deep conditioning... AHHHHH!!!! But I'm never going back to a relaxer, I've lost to much hair. I have severe alopecia on both sides and i know if I continue I'll be completely bald before I'm 30. I need help and advice. I have coarse hair and don't know where to start. I don't want to wear a wig or extension or braids. Where do I go from here? I was thinking about a roller set. I was using sponge rollers with pink oil moisturizer but i read that that is bad too! Deep conditioner, oil while it's dry, plastic rollers, do not comb, tie it at night. Can I wrap it? Hmm....